Hey y'all! I have had such a good week! I can't believe it's
already almost June! It's unreal. Well, next week is transfers so I have to
throw in a reminder that you won't hear from me until Wednesday of next week,
so don't panic *cough* mom *cough* ;)
Monday: Monday! Prep Day! On Monday Sister Sanders and I
took care of all of the needful things. Then we went to visit a potential
investigator named Tiffany. Tiffany, long story short, was someone we found
through a series of miracles and she seemed super interested but since we met
her a MONTH ago, she has never kept an appointment or been home when we drop
by. Again she wasn't home, but her roommate was. We had seen her roommate in
passing before but never had any substantial conversations with her. When we
came this time we woke her up from a nap (woops) and she set up a return
appointment so hopefully she will work out and bring her roommate along with
her! After that we went to FHE and talked to some investigators we had
there.
Tuesday: On Tuesday we had exchanges. I went with Sister
Blackwell again and she is so awesome. I love her. I also got to drive, for the
first time in months. Driving is not like riding a bicycle, it isn't just as
easy when you do it again after months. BUT we didn't die, and that's what
counts, right? We had a few lessons that were awesome! We weren't in my area so
I didn't know any of the people we had lessons with but there was one family we
sat down with that was awesome. They had a son who has some disabilities but he
loves Jesus, SO MUCH. It was seriously amazing. They said that he was so sad
when they told him that he couldn't ride his bike around and talk about Jesus
with the missionaries (the missionaries that teach him ride bikes pretty
frequently). Anyway, he was precious and the parents were talking about how
they were so concerned because they wanted to teach him religious things but
they didn't know how to teach him so that it would stick, the spirit hit me so
strongly, I just started crying and promised them that Christ new their son and
loved him and that as long as they were doing their best to teach him what God
would have him know, that the spirit would help him to understand. Christ knows
everybody and so the spirit will always teach us in the best way for us,
individually. The mom started crying and it was just a really tender
moment.
Wednesday: On Wednesday we had District Meeting and we
talked about how important it is that we teach people everything they need to
know about the gospel so that they don't feel confused or frustrated about what
they need to do. It was really good and I learned a lot of ways to improve my
teaching! After that we had a lot of awesome lessons lined up for the day...
until they all cancelled on us. All three of them. Suddenly we had a lot of
time to fill so we did some tracting and less active finding. It was a good
day, just a lot of finding.
Thursday: On Thursday we had a lesson with our recent
convert, Alec, and he is so awesome! We laughed about things and had really
good spiritual conversations. We are a little concerned about him, his life has
gotten really crazy and he has fallen back into some old habits he thought he
had kicked. After that we had a lesson fall through so we went to visit some
potential investigators. Later that night we had a meeting with our ward
mission leader about a Family Home Evening we are planning. We are planning on
having a "Missionary Bootcamp" where we talk to our members about how
to do missionary work because, it's summer.... in a YSA.... the missionaries
need help. We can tract and we can go talk to people but other than that it's
hard for us to do finding activities. HOPEFULLY this will help our members feel
more involved and confident in their missionary work.
Friday: On Friday we had exchanges in Grandby, I freaking
love Grandby. That's where my little friend Hyrum lives. We started out our day
there by doing service at Hyrum's house! He is so funny. I walked in and he
jumped off the couch and goes "I DIDN'T KNOW YOU WERE COMING TODAY!"
and started fixing his hair and straightening his shirt. Sister Sanders was
cracking up. I said "Yeah! I didn't know I was coming until today!"
he goes "Oh man!" he immediatley put on his shoes and spent the rest
of the time I was there outside with us. He is so funny. As I was leaving I
said "Hyrum, are you still praying I get transfered to Grandby?" and
he nodded his head and then casually goes "So.... when are you coming
back? Do you know? Are you coming next week?" I laughed and told him I had
no idea. He was a little bit bummed I couldn't commit to coming back. He's so
funny. After that Sister Snyder and I were on exchanges for the day. I LOVE Sister
Snyder. She is so cool! We had a really good day of lessons and trying to talk
to people. That night Sister Sanders and I headed home and I looked out the
window and saw these twinkling lights that were so pretty! I was trying to
figure out what they were and then I realized, they were lightning bugs! I
watched them the whole way home! Lightning bugs have a very special place in my
heart now. They are absolutely beautiful.
Saturday: On Saturday we did some service in the morning for
a less active member who is friends with our Recent convert, Alec. Her name is
Jina! She is really cool. We had a really good couple hours of cleaning and
organizing her store and then we went into weekly planning. LONGEST. DAY. EVER.
For some reason weekly planning took so long this week. I hate weekly planning,
I just wanna go missionary. We got it done though and then we did some
training. This is actually my last week of being a greeny! I'm so excited to be
a real life missionary! :)
Sunday: On Sunday we had 5 investigators at church which is
SO AWESOME! Of course, it was the week that we sing songs out of the sealed
portion of the hymn book. I'm talking hymns that I didn't even know after being
a member for almost twenty years. However, two of them said they would be
willing to meet with us after they figured out their work schedule for this
week and one set a return appointment so we gained three investigators! It was
awesome! After church we went to see Dylan, freaking Dylan. Sister Sanders and
Sister Smith (the missionary here before me) tracted into Dylan in January and
gave him a Book of Mormon. They kept coming back and checking up on him and his
progress and then the third week I was here Sister Sanders and I went and
checked up on him. He was so solid! He said he knew the Book of Mormon was the
word of God and he would be willing to meet with us as soon as he figured out
when he wasn't busy. We haven't seen or heard from him since. We go back
occasionally to see if we can catch him home but we never do. He lives across
the breezeway from a member so yesterday, when he wasn't home again, we knocked
on her door, gave her our number and asked her to text us if she ever happens
to see him at home. Hopefully we will get him someday!
Well, this week I have been thinking so
much about joy and failure and joy in failure. I have started meeting with the
mission counselor because I was just feeling really depressed and I didn't feel
good about myself or my missionary work. It got so bad that for about a week I
couldn't feel the spirit very much. It was a really hard time for me. I met
with Dr Dan for the first time and told him I was struggling with feeling like
a failure. He looked at me and said "You are!" and I was a little
surprised. He looked at me and explained that everyone is a failure. No one can
do everything perfectly, everyone fails. The most important part of failing is
recognizing it, and trying to be better. You can still find joy while you're a
failure. You can find joy in your failures. You just need to recognize that
that's why you're here, that's your purpose, to learn to find joy in your
failures. "Adam fell that men might be, and men are that they might have
joy." Well, by falling, Adam failed. He failed to live up to one of the
commandments God gave him. But because of his failure we are all able to find
joy in life. I love this concept because failing isn't something that condemns
us, it just helps us to try harder. I have loved learning this and trying to
find joy in my failures because I fail every. single. day. Am I happy about it?
Definitely not. But it happens and as I strive to find joy in my failures I
notice how richly I am blessed. I love my Heavenly Father so much. I'm grateful
for him and for the fact that he knew I would fail and made a way for me to
succeed. It gives me hope. I hope y'all have a great week. I love you. God
loves you. Keep on keepin on!
~Sister Lloyd
-- ~Sister Madisen Lloyd